Down
here in South Louisiana funerals, cemeteries and graves hold a special attraction
for us. It could be the Spanish - French culture or the Catholic influence but
in any case things seem to be a little different here. Thousands of family cemeteries dot the highways
and bayous where families visit their lost loved ones and even have picnics and
pseudo-family reunions, especially on All Saints Day. Priests visit the
cemeteries to bless the graves and the visitors. Families cut the grass, pull
the weeds, and paint the tombstones while the kids play and eat picnic lunches.
I
don’t really know how the rest of the country deals with their cemeteries but I
ran across another culture recently that adds an unusual twist to the usual
cemetery rituals in South Louisiana. The photo above was taken during a recent
trip to visit my wife’s parent’s graves.
This
is a commercial cemetery so there are few family reunions or picnics here.
There’s no need because this cemetery is pretty much in the center of town near
homes and restaurants and the grave sites are maintained by the company that
owns and operates the cemetery.
What
they do have however is a very colorful Vietnamese population (if that is the
proper word to use for the deceased inhabitants of the property) whose
remaining loved ones provide “special attention” to the final resting places of
their loved ones. It is rare not to see snacks, beverages and cigarettes left on
the graves along with the customary flowers.
While
all the graves have flowers it’s easy to tell the Vietnamese graves from other
graves. As you can see in these photos it’s the one with the beer…
…the
cigarettes…
…and
other “special treats.”
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